About Date a Domme

Date a Domme is a British dating site for dominant women and submissive men. Here is what that means.

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What we are

A dating site for people in the UK interested in a female-led dynamic, built around two audiences: dominant women and submissive men, addressed separately because they want different things from it.

What we are not

We are not a directory of professional dominatrices and we do not arrange or advertise paid sessions. We do not present dominance as something one person imposes on another without agreement. We do not publish rates, tributes or session prices for anyone, ever.

Who is here

Date a Domme has over 900 members, nearly all of them in the UK.

Where to go from here

If you want to know what to expect as a submissive man, start with for submissive men. If you are a dominant woman weighing this up, for dominant women is written for you specifically. Safety on Date a Domme and our pricing page cover the two things most people want to know before joining anything.

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