What is free
Creating a profile, browsing other members and using search are all free. You do not need to enter a card to look around, and nothing that is free today quietly becomes paid later without you choosing it.
What is paid
Messaging needs a paid membership. That is the one place the free part ends. There are two tiers, VIP and VIP+, each available for one week, one month, three months, six months or one year. The full current prices are below.
VIP
| Duration | Price per week | Billed amount |
|---|---|---|
| 1 week | £14.99 | £14.99 |
| 1 month | £6.99 | £29.96 |
| 3 months | £4.99 | £64.16 |
| 6 months | £3.99 | £102.60 |
| 1 year | £2.99 | £155.91 |
VIP+
| Duration | Price per week | Billed amount |
|---|---|---|
| 1 week | £15.99 | £15.99 |
| 1 month | £7.99 | £34.24 |
| 3 months | £5.99 | £77.01 |
| 6 months | £4.99 | £128.31 |
| 1 year | £3.99 | £208.05 |
Both tables show the price per week and the total actually billed for that duration. We have not printed a savings percentage against any tier, because the figures behind that calculation are not reliable enough to publish. The two real numbers are there instead, so you can compare them yourself.
What a paid membership buys, and what it does not
It buys messaging. It does not buy anyone's time, compliance or attention, and it does not buy an outcome with another member. Nobody on this site is selling a session, and this page will never publish, quote or invite rates, tributes or session prices for anyone. If any page here ever reads otherwise, that is a mistake and we would want it reported to us.
No tricks around the number itself
No struck-through price designed to make the current one look like a bargain. No countdown timer. No limited-time language. If a price changes, this page changes with it.
Cancelling
You can cancel a paid membership at any time from your account settings, and you keep access until the end of the billing period you have already paid for.
Related reading
If you are weighing up whether to join at all, for dominant women and for submissive men set out what to expect from each side. Safety on Date a Domme covers money and account security, and about Date a Domme covers what we do and do not claim.
Common questions
Is joining Date a Domme free?
Yes. Creating a profile, browsing other members and using search cost nothing, and no card is needed to look around.
What does a paid membership cover?
Messaging. It buys the ability to send and read messages. It does not buy anyone's time, compliance or attention, and nothing on this site should ever imply that it does.
What is the difference between VIP and VIP+?
Both are paid tiers with the same range of durations, from one week to one year. VIP+ sits at a slightly higher price at every duration. What each tier includes is confirmed on the upgrade screen before you pay.
Are there hidden fees, timers or struck-through prices?
No. No countdown timers, no limited-time offers and no crossed-out price designed to look like a discount. The prices on this page are the real prices.
Can I cancel?
Yes, from your account settings, and you keep access until the end of your current billing period.